I am Eric, and thank you. You can close / delete if needed, thank you for the replies

 

Truckman, normal wife??? I'm sorry, that doesn't exist. Children will challenge any relationship. Try to understand what she is missing. There was a lot of good advice here. As an outsider, it looks like you are growing apart. Hopefully you can do a 180 and get back on course. I hope it works out for you. When all else fails, stay in the garage till 11.

 

Sometimes I like my position of still being single. It's like being divorced, but I get to keep all my stuff.

 

I hope you take Oldcutlass's (Eric's) advice, sit er' down and talk things out. Ask yourselves that question... Why you each married, what would it be like if separation or divorce papers were in front of each other.
All the best to you and the family,
Eric

 

We talked, and she hung out at acouple friends houses this past week. She is going a way on a long weekend soon.
So she's been happy, and I got some action acouple time since.
She said she was being misserable, but didnt know why. But admitted about taking everything out on me. She seems much better for now.
Her deal is shes tired of me paying for everything, she wants to work and contribute money wise...But ive payed for schooling for her 2x, and she never held a legit job. I never cared honestly, so we'll see.