[Lady72nRob71]

>>In my opinion, the buyers obligation is finished when they have made payment for an item


I agree. What many sellers do is leave the feeback open so if the item is crap or not even received, the buyer may not leave a negative in fear of getting a retaliation negative back from the seller. Once a seller posts a positive for the buyer, he cannot change it. This is why many sellers' feedback is much higher than it really should be.
My ex and I did a lot of "business" on that site and figured out how people are. Buying car parts seems to be the worst experience for me on there.
After 10 years on there, the last 3 years have been really turning sour.
I can't wait til the feedback rules are changed in May so buyers can HONESTLY leave appropriate feedback without retaliation fears.

The site has some really good members and neat stuff, but there are a few VERY bad apples in the bunch and it is sometimes VERY hard to forsee that before getting involved...