I don't know what happened to the reply I posted yesterday. Maybe I never sent it....
My Motor's Manual shows that H heads were used on '63 2bbl 394s and '64 394s. J heads were used on '63 4bbl 394s. My '63 parts book shows that '62 and '63 used the same heads (regardless of engine code) and the same valves. I would imagine '64 used these as well. Non-Starfire '61s used different heads and valves and '61 Starfire had their own unique heads and (larger) valves. Actually, only the driver's side head will have a number on it anyway, and it was only for engine identification. You'll have to pick a head for the driver's side, and then visually match up a mate for the passenger's side - one with the same appearance and markings.
Here's a link to an AACA thread with some engine part number interchangability:
http://forums.aaca.org/ubbthreads.ph...289#Post455289
Paul